| How To Get The Girl You Want - Strategy Talk |
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 When you are sitting in a bar, a lounge or a club,you you look and search around, find that a girl who's with a bunch of girlfriends across the room is really appealing and hot, you want to know her, you want to date her, what would you do?
The strategy is to approach this group of girls (maybe 2 or more, those who she comes with) and start talking to her friends - IGNORE HER!
Yes, I said IGNORE HER in front of her friends. Normally, a very attractive and appealing girl knows what she has and tends to be very confident that she IS THE ONE gets the guys - any guys. She tends to assume that she will get the attention and "pick-up" if a guy approaches her and her group of friends that she is hanging out with. When she's not the center of attention and you could get her girlfriends' attention, she will become more active in finding out why you are not "noticing" her existence. She would wonder...am I not wearing the proper outfit? Is my make-up messed up? what's wrong...etc. etc. She will fall into the trap that you set up - ignore is to get to her. Furthermore, those type of girls normally have the urge to "win", that is, to win over her girlfriends. The more you "don't notice" her, the more she wants to jump in front of you when you are socializing with her friends. She wants the attention and acknowlegement. She can not bear to lose.
That said, as a guy who can firstly get her friends' attention, you need certain skills, you need to wear nice proper outfit, look proper and hopfully charming in a way, you need to be a cool and fun gentlemen, you need to be able to carry a fun conversation. When you interact with other girls in presence, give everyone equal attention, only ignore THAT ONE you are really interested in purposely but diplomatically, that is, do not look at her in particular, give your bright sun shiny smile to the girl next to her, occassionally give her a quick glance and smile but move your attention away right after that...
After several minutes, you started to pick up the conversation with her - after she did try quite hard to get your attention. You take it slow, equal the power, do not let her find out that you are very into her. Play it slow and polite. Show your own charm and patience. Give her certain distance. Do not open up yourself as an open book. Wait until she asks for your phone number, tactfully ask her number in return.
Are you getting the idea? Try it, it works. If you get it done well, what you get is not only her phone number...
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Author: S. James (FreeOnlineDating4You.com editor)
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Posted on Thursday, July 26 @ 21:31:23 MDT by admin |
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