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| Discovering Different Emotional Needs for Men & Women |
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 Men and women generally are unaware that they have different emotional needs. As a result they do not instinctively know how to support each other. Men typically give in relationships what men want, while women give what women want. Each mistakenly assumes that the other has the same needs and desires. As a result they both end up dissatisfied and resentful.
Both men and women feel they give and give but do not get back. They feel their love is unacknowledged and unappreciated. The truth is they are both giving love but not in the desired manner.
For example, a woman thinks she is being loving when she asks a lot of caring questions or expresses concern. As we have discussed before, this can be very annoying to a man. He may start to feel controlled and want space. She is confused, because if she were offered this kind of support she would be appreciative. Her efforts to be loving are at best ignored and at worst annoying.
Similarly, men think they are being loving, but the way they express their love may make a woman feel invalidated and unsupported. For example, when a woman gets upset, he thinks he is loving and supporting her by making comments that minimize the importance of her problems. He may say "Don't worry, It's not such a big deal." Or he may completely ignore her, assuming he is giving her a lot of "space" to cool off and go into her cave. What he thinks is support makes her feel minimized, unloved, and ignored.
When a woman is upset she needs to be heard and understood. Without this insight into different male and female needs, a male doesn't understand why his attempts to help fall.
Most of our complex emotional needs can be summarized as the need for love. Men and women each have six unique love needs that are all equally, important. Men primarily need trust. acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement. Women primarily, need caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance. The enormous task of figuring out what our partner needs is simplified greatly through understanding these twelve different kinds of love.
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Posted by admin on Tuesday, August 14 @ 14:32:55 MDT (400 reads)
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| How To Get The Girl You Want - Strategy Talk |
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 When you are sitting in a bar, a lounge or a club,you you look and search around, find that a girl who's with a bunch of girlfriends across the room is really appealing and hot, you want to know her, you want to date her, what would you do?
The strategy is to approach this group of girls (maybe 2 or more, those who she comes with) and start talking to her friends - IGNORE HER!
Yes, I said IGNORE HER in front of her friends. Normally, a very attractive and appealing girl knows what she has and tends to be very confident that she IS THE ONE gets the guys - any guys. She tends to assume that she will get the attention and "pick-up" if a guy approaches her and her group of friends that she is hanging out with. When she's not the center of attention and you could get her girlfriends' attention, she will become more active in finding out why you are not "noticing" her existence. She would wonder...am I not wearing the proper outfit? Is my make-up messed up? what's wrong...etc. etc. She will fall into the trap that you set up - ignore is to get to her. Furthermore, those type of girls normally have the urge to "win", that is, to win over her girlfriends. The more you "don't notice" her, the more she wants to jump in front of you when you are socializing with her friends. She wants the attention and acknowlegement. She can not bear to lose.
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Posted by admin on Thursday, July 26 @ 21:31:23 MDT (363 reads)
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| Science of Love - PerfectMatch.com on NBC |
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PerfectMatch.com has a new show on NBC - Science of Love. Try perfectmatch.com if you have been struggled with finding your compatible partner. You may read related review on perfectmatch.com through our Dating Site Review section.
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Posted by admin on Wednesday, July 04 @ 22:53:26 MDT (361 reads)
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| BE AWARE of Email Fraud!!! |
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 We just received a number of complaints from our members against a new registered user of our community (user name: Jeni) who sent Private Message (PM) to our members individually with the same content soliciting for help which really just a way of fraud to pledge for money and one's confidential finance information. Although it is up to individual member to decide whether or not to contact this person through the email address he/she provided in PM, we as community admin staff suggest you be extremely cautious with these kind of solicitation, use your judgement wisely and do not give out your credit card information or financial information or money. FreeOnlineDating4You community will not take any responsibility should you decide to do so and consequently suffer financial loss.
As a result of multiple complaints regarding the inappropriate solicitation of this member, we disable his/her account and disapprove his/her application of becoming a member of FriendFinder Club. His/Her IP address has been banned consequently.
Please do not hesitate to remit any concerns and/or comoplaint you might have to us. You can simply forward the PM to SiteAdmin in your Inbox. The full content of this person's pledging is posted in Forum Rule >> IP Banned Section as a pre-caution exercise.
You may view the full SiteAdmin Banning notice over HERE.
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Posted by admin on Wednesday, June 20 @ 16:19:19 MDT (333 reads)
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| Find a Date Online and Offline |
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Technology enables online dating a new dating fashion, but still, many of us can still find a date offline, well, that is, if you are attempting to find one offline.
The following dating tips are activities where women, as a whole, would be in the minority, and I recommend them to seek out to meet men:
1. Anything related to sports! As a participant: Bicycling groups, Tennis ladders and clinics, Ski clubs, Running clubs, Rollerblading, Coed-softball teams or games, Coed-volleyball teams or games, Racquetball leagues and ladders, Golf clubs, Kickball teams, Ultimate Frisbee, Coed Soccer leagues, Bowling leagues, Working out with weights at the gym. As a spectator: Sports bars with viewing of basketball, football, baseball games. (Especially March madness!) Going to college or professional sports games: baseball, basketball, football, soccer and hockey.
2. Online Dating Websites: Since guys see the internet as time and money efficient, this is a good way to connect with guys. Also, going in chat rooms with any subject you are interested in may be a good way to connect. Here, you can review dating profiles, receive dating tips, get answers to your relationship questions, and more!
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Posted by admin on Sunday, June 03 @ 19:58:37 MDT (369 reads)
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